It seems that america can accept a Black man as president, but not the love between two people. I wonder if people will ever GET IT!

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Gabriellelover25 |
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One day after we take a huge step toward equality, by electing a black man president of the united states, which honestly is incredible in terms of maturity
and acceptance in this country, people in California voted for Proposition 8, which made a constituinal amendment to ban same sex marriage.
It seems that america can accept a Black man as president, but not the love between two people. I wonder if people will ever GET IT!
"There is a moment when I look at you, and no speech is left in me. My tongue breaks, then fire races through my skin and I tremble and grow pale, for I am dying of such love, or so it seems to me."
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sofialindsay |
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*shakes head in amazement that as a country we can go forward, yet as states we move backwards*
Of all the states, California shocks me the most. Now there's protesting, and the "Yes" people still don't see anything wrong with it.
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PBODYMLI |
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So does that make it official...I mean wasn't California the state to recently accept it?
I'm with you sofia...unfortunetly things take time, why this takes so long for people to understand I don't know. There reasons are because it's against the bible...but doesn't the bible also say we should stone people...crucify...etc. But we don't...and these then there are those who don't want the bible to take any precedence with the government...so therefore the fact of what the catholic church beleives shouldn't matter. right? It's all rediculous and I personally believe it'll happen...heck we came from so much... With slavery look at us now...and women voting, a long time that wasn't heard off...so in time I hope they will see the light. That love is rare and special and to find someone you want to be with for the rest of your life...no matter the sex...they deserve the same rights because under it all...we are people
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sofialindsay |
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PBODYMLI wrote:Yes, California had recently accepted it. The ACLU and other groups are already planning on taking it to the Supreme Court. If it does, think this could be a turning point for gay rights. Oh yes. Our good friend the Bible.
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PBODYMLI |
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Still I thought religion isn't supposed to have any precedence in goverment law...
Really by allowing same sex marriage...who is it hurting...is in physically huting anyone? It's a right and I'm all for it
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sofialindsay |
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Ah. Seperation of Church and State. That isn't going to happen, because the religious organizations are the ones with the money to fund the groups. The
groups that have the money are the ones that have better exposure usually. Some would probably argue that it's hard to seprate the two, when this country
was founded as a way to have religious freedom.
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Gabriellelover25 |
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I have always believed that Church and state should be seperate. You have the right, in America to believe in whatever god or gods you want, but I do not
believe that those beliefs should be spoon fed into the government and be the rational for decisions such as this.
Gay marriage is agaisnt the bible? Yes well if you read it close, it actually says nothing of the sort. People have taken and twisted its words to serve their own purpose. If god is as all loving and forgiving as they say, then should he be all for me marrying my girlfriend and being in love an happy? It's sad, seems tolerance of all forms is still a long way off.
"There is a moment when I look at you, and no speech is left in me. My tongue breaks, then fire races through my skin and I tremble and grow pale, for I am dying of such love, or so it seems to me."
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Lieut Kusa |
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It's really a shame that they did this. It %(*#@*! p*sses me off!
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PBODYMLI |
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The catholic church believes in two parts to marriage...
1. able to create life 2. able to remain faithfull and loving to eachother or something like that...sorry but i'm no expert I just know that its the creat life that causes an issue. It doesn't help that the media blows it out of the water on top of it. But still how many children are left without parents...how many are loss to abortion...how many are in homes of abuse? Okay so I'm ranting but it's just I don't understand why it's not legal yet. It's sad when people have to leave their own state, home, family behind just to get married.
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you know that little thing seperation of church and state? well it's all a bunch of bull$#!@
who gives the government power to control all of this? who are the ones that said we have to listen to them at all? where is it that states we have to listen to the "laws" set forth anyways? i believe that our government was originally set up to help people and whatnot but now it's just all flippin retarded for the most part. eh, my anarchist ways of thinkin have been startin to come back to me. Can there not just be one government that is just simple and straight foward without making all these little things get in the way of ACTUALLY helping the "people"? Now I would just love for everyone who voted yes to just beable and look all of these people in the face that had gotten married while it was legalized and explain to them WHY. WHY is it so important to you to destroy something so sacred between 2 people that love each other, when it has absolutely nothing to do with you at all? WHY? Tell me why you deserve to beable to declare your love to the whole world and make it official when i cannot have the same opportunity? It's just all bull$#!@ and it just pisses me off a tad bit if ya haven't noticed arrrgh
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PBODYMLI |
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Oh she's gonna blow *hides*
see told you...*conforts shadow* hun it's okay...relax, breathe, ... feel better? no..well how about Still you are right and I'm with 100% of the way
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4sakenshadowxsoldierlette wrote: AMEN TO THAT!!! Pretty much said it perfectly!
"There is a moment when I look at you, and no speech is left in me. My tongue breaks, then fire races through my skin and I tremble and grow pale, for I am dying of such love, or so it seems to me."
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PBODYMLI |
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she's so cute when she goes on a rampage
but yep...AMEN AMEN AMEN... okay so i'm not gay...not yet...shadow is turning me lol but I still feel you deserve that right as much as anyone out there...
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Gay marriage is agaisnt the bible? Yes well if you read it close, it actually says nothing of the sort.There are 6 verses of homosexuality in the Bible. However the word homosexual wasn't even invented until much later AFTER the Bible was mentioned. And through the years and being translated through many languages... how can one say the Bible is true to the exact word? While that is debatable... Do you think it should be allowed up to the state to determine if gay marriage is legal or not?
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Gabriellelover25 |
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No, I think it should be up to the supreme court, just like the right to abortion, they made it legal, to have the choice, i believe they should do the same
thing with gay marriage. Dont leave it up to the people, or the state to decide. The backwater mentality will still exsist and it will never happen. The
supreme court is the one who ruled Gay marriage legal in California, they need to make it legal for the entire united states!
"There is a moment when I look at you, and no speech is left in me. My tongue breaks, then fire races through my skin and I tremble and grow pale, for I am dying of such love, or so it seems to me."
Without Gabrielle, There would be NO Xena!
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TheNextGabrielle wrote: Well, if you really wanted to get technical...lesbianism, or even 'a woman lying with a woman as she would a man' isn't even mentioned...and I'm not going to bore you guys by getting into reasons I think the Bible isn't true to the exact word. *lol* Now to answer your question. I honestly don't know. I know if left to the states, I'll never be able to marry my girlfriend if we chose to. (I'm assuming my current gf and I stay together. lol) We would never be able to marry here in Kentucky, it's just too conservative. Although Ohio, where she's from, might be a little more likely, I highly doubt it. Still, if the federal government stepped in and said, "hey. you MUST allow them." then we wouldn't have to move somewhere just so we could get married. So I'm really torn at the moment.
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PBODYMLI wrote: ha i'm workin my way up there, how can one not love you doll, you're an angel and as far as the bible thing goes, i have quite a few issues with it. i think it's a great book, but when i always ask someone how they know it's true they always reply back because it's the bible and it's god's word and it says so. I just want to pop em on the head bc that makes no since at all. You can't use the book in question for it's on reference. Who's not to say how twisted the words in there have become from the original. especially the catholic church from way back when, it's not that far stretched to say that things could have been tweaked around to please someones interest. but hey, who am i to say these things? i'm just another useless teenager looking for something to rebel against and is full of all this new age crap, right?
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TheNextGabrielle wrote:Actually, the word "homosexual" (or "invert" as it was referred to by the psychologists who invented the term) wasn't coined until some time in the 1880s. In fact, the word "heterosexual" didn't even exist until then. Ironic, eh? I don't have the exact references in front of me, but the term they lock on to in Leviticus is really a Hebrew word that refers to "temple prostitutes." Marriage in Biblical days wasn't even about love or attraction, it was about property ownership and ensuring the continuation of the male lineage (i.e. procreation). What we refer to now as marriage bears no resemblence to what the Bible spoke of as marriage. On another note, one of my co-workers (goddess bless his little pagan soul) got into a debate with four of the females in our office yesterday about gay marriage and Prop 8. He posed to the most resistant woman (that used the Bible as her excuse) what she would prefer her son to grow up to be - a murderer or a homosexual. She couldn't decide. Something is fundamentally wrong with a person that can't deal with that kind of moral dilemma. My mother actually told me one time that she'd prefer I was a muderer than a lesbian. WTF is up with that?!
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buffypii |
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That's terrible!
No matter what colour, religion, or sexual orientation, we are all the same.. We're human! We are living beings! It takes all types to make this world the way it's supposed to be! Nobody's perfect...
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PBODYMLI |
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See doll..she keeps this up...*shakes head*
I loves you...you know it... bomp them in the back of the head I never thought of it that way but the more I do...I agree...has there ever been one thing we don't agree on? oh your little habits but we won't get into that but really...anything else? Are you my conscience...have you been watching me... how do you know me so well...it's a little freaky...no not really, its just you
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calliopes muse wrote: Oh yes...this is the new equation for life: WTF is wrong with these people?!!
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