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just as long as the extremists are doing it i guess it's okay. the population may outnumber them, but the public isn't in the mood to fight, physically
for their right to vote.
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Xenasgrrl wrote:if that was me, and my sole purpose for voting for candidate was based on that, i would vote independent. they're more likely to support same sex marriages than any major candidate will. also, at the state level, it is more than likely for full rights to everyone who wants to get married than at the national level.
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calliopes muse |
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Why is that everytime someone says the word "lesbian" or "gay" you have to bring up the marriage issue AGAIN, Piper? I don't remember
Xenasgrrl even mentioning that topic so why bring it up?
And for the record, check this out: http://www.pamshouseblend...showDiary.do?diaryId=7959 Obama's response to his opinion on Prop 8: "I think it's unnecessary. I believe marriage is between a man and a woman. I am not in favor of gay marriage. But when you start playing around with constitutions, just to prohibit somebody who cares about another person, it just seems to me that's not what America's about. Usually, our constitutions expand liberties, they don't contract them." ...In addition to expressing his opposition to Proposition 8, Obama said he believes and supports "strong civil unions ... that provide legal rights to same-sex couples [so] that they can visit each other in the hospital if they get sick, [so] they can transfer property to each other. If they've got benefits, they can make sure those benefits apply to their partners. I think that's the direction we need to go in. I think young people are ahead of the curve on this for the most part. Their attitude, generally, is that we should be respectful of all people, and that's the kind of politics I want to practice." And THAT'S the kind of person I want running this country. Piper, the bottom line is, you aren't gay and you have no idea what it's like to be gay. Therefore, you have no right to speak on it, and I'd appreciate it if you wouldn't needlessly bring up unrelated topics just to pick a fight.
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TheNextGabrielle |
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Here's my opinion on the election.
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calliopes muse wrote:I happen to be for same sex marriage, so please don't assume anything. I also realize that it is more likely that state laws can be passed than at the national level in support of it. Even if laws are passed, it's the congress that votes for it not the President and even more less than likely the Vice President. I brought it up because Xenasgrrl mentioned that she's a lesbian and rights in same sentence. |
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Again, not much point in dwelling on things I have no control over. bluebell, sorry -- i have to disagree with you on this. if everyone felt as you did nothing would ever change. the suffrage movement was started in the 1840's because a group of women with no rights and no voice decided to speak out and demand the right to vote. if those women had felt as you did women these days would not be allowed to vote, to own property and would be at the mercy of the good graces of their husbands. what's that saying? all it takes for evil to succeed is for good men to do nothing (or something like along those lines...) and i think that the 2000 election in florida proved that every vote counts. |
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everhope wrote:Amen to that. But I will say (and I'll probably be told off as well), you can feel sorry for us or whatever, but the fact of the matter is, you don't get it. Heterosexuals don't understand what it's like not to have basic human rights like marriage and adoption. The marjority of the population probably never will. Have you listened/read Pastor Wright's sermons? It's really interesting and on the exact same line (only different). I don't personally agree with it, but makes for good thought fodder.
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piper77 wrote: You really don't get it Piper, do you? "Lesbian" and "rights" doesn't automatically mean we want to discuss our lifestyles every single time it's brought up. I actually find that line of thought a bit offensive, to be honest. You're trying to turn being gay into a reason to argue for/against something. I don't think you realize that all we ever want is for the world to leave us alone with the ones we love. Yes, many of us are gay here, but that's not all we are. Shockingly enough, I would never vote for McCain for his issues on Drugs, Crime, and Guns. So yes, I'm a lesbian. Yes, I want my damn rights, BUT that's not all I am. And I find it highly offensive that you think just because one says they're gay/lesbian, it automatically opens the door up for a political discussion about how we can't have our rights. Yes, we get the picture perfectly, we're living it! We don't need people constantly reminding us! That being said, I think it's time I take a leave from this discussion!
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calliopes muse |
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Yeah, what Sofia said!
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Xenasgrrl |
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In my opinion, voting for an Independent cadidate is like throwing a vote away...it may be a symbolic political statement, but they're not going to win.
And I think the state by state laws on gay marriage is kind of ridiculous. If I get married in Massachsettes, and then move to Arizona, my marriage in null and void? It just makes no sense, but for now, I just hope that more and more states continue to legalize it. I'm glad to hear you're for gay marriage Piper, I had no idea until now. And TNG, wow...I just can't imagine anyone ever scaring me into voting for anything I didn't want to.
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sofialindsay wrote:It's always brought up on here so why not? Really, what else would she be talking about? I can't be support of gay rights because I'm not gay, so I can talk about it? Does that also mean that I also support a woman's right to chose I can't talk about neither because I'm a man? There are many Republicans like me who support those two things and are voting for McCain. Some of them are on this board. |
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Xenasgrrl wrote:I have to say that I never would have guessed it either, Piper. You always seem to be looking for an opportunity to take a dig. Believe me when I say, that because we live with inequality everyday, that we know what the hell we're doing. We vote the way that is best for us and our families, just like everyone else does. Right now, I'll take a man who says he supports civil unions over one who says he'll support a federal marriage amendment. I just get tired of being treated like I don't know anything about my own situation and that's the way your comment was coming across to me.
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calliopes muse |
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Okay, I just tried to be nice and now I'm really sorry I did.
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calliopes muse wrote: I don't think anybody in this election has come out against civil unions. I know Palin supports an amendment, but just because she supports it doesn't mean diddly, because the congress would have to pass it. |
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TheNextGabrielle |
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Heterosexuals don't understand what it's like not to have basic human rights like marriage and adoption.^__^ Maybe not from experience but they can certainly understand why people want it and why the country needs to accept the ideas. Nevertheless, it's nice to have all certain kinds of people fighting for a cause. I just can't imagine anyone ever scaring me into voting for anything I didn't want to.I know. A few of my friends are voting for Obama just based on because they would be looked down upon because they're not with the majority. lol I joked around and said I'm voting for McCain to prove a point. They didn't find that very funny though. lol
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calliopes muse |
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*headdesk* Yeah, this is what I get for being nice for a moment. You don't get it, you never will. You won't listen, and you never will. I have to step
away from this thread because I'm going to get banned if I say much more.
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Xenasgrrl |
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TheNextGabrielle wrote: The thing is, nobody knows what you voted for. You're the only one in your voting booth. So you could lie and say you're voting for someone to get people to stop bugging you, but in the end anyone can vote for anyone they want and nobody will know the difference.
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TheNextGabrielle wrote:Indeed. Just look at Steven Sears recent passionate text on Prop 8. And I personally think that disregarding anyone just because they are not in the exact same shoes does us all a grave injustice. |
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Xenasgrrl wrote:Exactly!
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Actually Piper, you were the one who brought it up in this case. Obviously, I'm not speaking for XG, but again I say you seem to have missed the entire
point of my post which was: Someone saying they're gay, doesn't mean they want to have a political discussion over same-sex marriages. You brought up
how the candidates felt about them, which I think many people know tends to cause tension across the board. I'm to the point I think you're bringing up
things for the sole purpose of picking an argument with those you know feel strongly for something.
Personally, I don't care if American's vote for Mickey Mouse, with Goofy as a running mate! I don't care who anyone votes for, as long as they vote. I know that whoever I vote for, I'll be able to sleep at night, so that's all that matters to me. I'll just be glad when this election is over! Calliope, I'm right behind you.
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