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I'd never heard the toaster oven joke before either; that's funny and appropriate, Twinkletoes!

Aw, I hope it didn't ruin your day off, Xenarose, thinking about going in to work tomorrow.

I think there are a couple of reasons why you don't have to be embarrassed. First, yeah, like people have said, anyone would be flattered to be asked out by you. There's a scene in the recent Buffy comic where the plot is such that a straight girl knows that a gay girl is in love with her. The straight girl's response is "knowing someone as incredible as you feels that way about me makes me feel less lonely." That touched me, and I think it applies here--I bet it's not nearly as big of a deal to her as it is to you, and you gave her something precious. The other reason is that if she was flirting with you, her mixed signals aren't your responsibility. Some people flirt just for the heck of it, and others can flirt without realizing it (I fall into that category sometimes--but when I do realize it, my response is to smack myself on the head, not the other person).

So anyway, if I were you, I'd just treat her as naturally as you can, and it'll all start feeling okay in a few days.

I am sorry to hear about you and Toni. It sounds like you made the right decision, though. Continued problems and drama--yeah, you're right, you don't need that at the moment. I think you have to start the same place as in a friendship, with trust, loyalty, consistency, love, and you do know what you're looking for.

Take care, and sleep well, ok?